Do loved ones on the other side use bad language, as they did on Earth?
Yes, absolutely. I have had many instances where they come through using colourful language, making both my clients and me laugh. There is no reason for our loved ones to lose their personality simply because they are now on the other side. They do not lose their character, their humour, or their choice of words, whether good or bad.
During one session, a man came through for his wife and described his brother as an “F-word jerk.” He then told his wife to sell the piece of “s” car, which he had never liked anyway. Almost every other sentence contained a swear word. I asked my client if she was comfortable with me sharing everything unfiltered, and she said yes, please. Rather than being offended, she giggled several times.
“That’s how he was. He had a foul mouth and a temper, Garo. I wouldn’t have believed it was him if he had come through differently.”
There are also times when loved ones on the other side tease my clients by calling them names or referring to very personal situations. Interestingly, my clients almost always find this amusing.
“Why did you change your hair?!”
My client burst out laughing and explained that her partner had disliked her current hairstyle. She had waited until he passed before changing it back to how she liked it. He showed me Miss Piggy from the Muppets, and when I shared this, the client laughed and said, “I know exactly what he’s trying to say!”
Of course, I do not always understand the private jokes or the banter, but that is all right. What matters is that these moments resonate in my clients’ hearts. It is comforting to know that we remain who we are, even on the other side.
