Many people have seen him, the elusive dark figure often described as a shadowy man. He usually lacks clear physical features and appears more like a one-dimensional presence. Some have reported seeing him in a long black coat and hat. Others only describe an outline, a dark, heavy mass. He tends to appear at night, either as we begin to drift off to sleep or in the middle of it. Most often, he emerges in a dimly lit corner of the bedroom, such as a doorway, although at times he can be much closer, even just a few inches away, as in my case.
The appearances of the shadow man are usually random but occur with unsettling regularity. He often returns to the same people regardless of where they are. Although his energy feels menacing and unwelcome, I have not heard of anyone being physically harmed. That does not mean it has never happened, but more often, he frightens us by the simple fact that he is an intruder.
Many years ago, I was disturbed by this presence for quite some time. There was no communication between us, and I had no desire to initiate it. Still, I often wondered who he was, where he came from, and what he wanted. I quickly learned not to entertain those thoughts, as his energy never felt pleasant. One night, weighed down by overwhelming problems in my life, I went to bed in a terrible mood. Not long after I fell asleep, I woke to the sense that the shadow man was hovering inches away from me. Even at such close range, I could not make out his features, only his dark form. Instead of fear, I felt anger. I shouted, “If you are going to do something, then do it, or PISS OFF!”
He vanished immediately, and I have never seen him since.
I share this story as a reminder that our space and wellbeing must always be respected, no matter who or what intrudes. If something from another realm disturbs you, treat it as you would any unwanted human presence here on earth. Nothing and no one on this side of life or from anywhere else should ever be allowed to hurt you. Be firm and resolute, and remember: it is your life, you are in control.
