Many people choose to book sessions on days that coincide with a special anniversary or other significant date associated with a loved one who has passed away. This might be a birthday, anniversary, or memorial. They often feel that doing so both honours the person and increases the chance of meaningful communication.
But do special dates really matter to our loved ones on the other side? Will such dates improve the likelihood of them coming through or enhance the quality of the communication?
Based on many years of experience, I’ve concluded that our loved ones are indeed aware of significant dates. However, these moments don’t hold the same weight for them as they do for us. What truly matters to them is our happiness and peace. Interestingly, some of the most powerful sessions occur on special days, not because the dates themselves hold extra meaning, but because we are more emotionally open and receptive at those times. They recognise our longing and, when possible, respond with comfort, gratitude, and reassurance. This reaffirms our ability to communicate with them, offering hope and empowerment.
Ultimately, it’s comforting to know that our loved ones are always close, offering their presence and support, regardless of the calendar. Their love transcends time and space, providing a constant source of comfort and reassurance.
