One of the most rewarding aspects of my work is helping others let go of their anger so that they can find peace. It is never easy to truly let go. After all, some emotions become so deeply embedded within us that they begin to define who we are, obscuring our sense of ourselves and the person we once were.
Losing someone to old age, while still deeply painful, is an inevitable part of life and is therefore, perhaps, more readily accepted. However, losing someone long before their time is devastating because it feels profoundly unfair. This is often when people begin a painful journey, struggling with grief, anger, and unanswered questions.
I cannot imagine a greater pain than losing a son or daughter, even to natural causes. Many parents who book a session with me find themselves conflicted. They are angry with God, yet they also feel guilty for those feelings and, in some cases, even afraid to express them. I reassure them that their anger is understandable and that God will not judge them for how they feel, whether those emotions are spoken aloud or carried silently within their hearts.
I encourage them to express their anger and release it.
“Go into nature and scream. Go to a gym and hit a punching bag. Whatever you do, do not keep it inside.”
I explain that acknowledging and releasing anger is often the first step towards making room for mourning, healing, and eventually, peace. I also strongly encourage them to seek the guidance and support of a qualified grief counsellor.
I cannot imagine a more difficult journey in life, but I also believe deeply in the power of prayer and the extraordinary resilience of the human spirit. I remain in awe of, and profoundly humbled by, many of the remarkable people who have entrusted me with their stories.
Although my mission is to bring comfort and closure, I often feel that my service is small in comparison to the courage I witness. I have learned so much from each of you. Your smiles, your faith, and your capacity to love, even during your darkest hours, have inspired me more than words can express.
Thank you. I love you all.
