The gift, or rather the ability, is remarkable in every sense of the word, yet it carries a profound responsibility. I engage with individuals who are vulnerable and in need of guidance, clarity, and hope. Their well-being, to a significant extent, rests in my hands.
Before embarking on my journey at this level, I understood the necessity of proper preparation to manage even the most demanding situations. During a holiday in Spain with my wife and daughter, I experienced a defining moment. One quiet morning, as I walked alone along the seashore, a familiar sensation enveloped me, the subtle, tingling awareness that often arises during a session. In that stillness, I felt the presence of my communicator from the other side and heard a clear impression:
“The time has come, but you need to choose if this is what you want.”
I understood this as a message that the path ahead would be arduous. I hesitated, fearful of failing those who might depend on me. Yet I also recognised the profound honour inherent in being entrusted with such a calling. Conflicted, I spoke with my wife. She asked a simple yet penetrating question: would I be content, years from now, knowing that I had turned away from the trust placed in me? Her faith in me was unwavering, and she assured me of her support regardless of my choice.
I then consulted my dear friend Paula in London, an experienced psychotherapist and a deeply spiritual woman. She was delighted for me and offered to assist me personally in preparing for the work ahead. Thus began a journey that would extend over many years. I could not have anticipated how demanding it would become, but with her guidance, I explored the deepest corners of my past, confronting everything that might hinder my ability to serve others.
“In order for you to be of service to others, Garo, you must first heal yourself.”
That counsel proved to be both true and transformative. The process was the most challenging and painful experience of my life. The saying that we are our own worst enemies proved entirely accurate. Each time I confronted one issue, several more emerged, creating what felt like an endless cycle of self-discovery and healing. There were moments when I wanted to surrender, yet something within me refused to allow it. I remain deeply grateful that I persevered.
The ability itself represents only the surface of a much greater purpose. Its true significance lies in helping others discover the same light that I once found in my darkest hour. The path has never been easy, yet I would not wish it otherwise. I am profoundly thankful for the privilege of serving.
(To Paula Barder, my second mother… fly high with the blessed angels)
