I pick up many physical signs during my readings, and these help me better understand the situation. For instance, sometimes when I share a message or important information, I get goosebumps all over, as if it were further confirmation that I am on the right track.
When I sense an energy that feels distant and not yet drawing near, it often signals a situation in which the person’s actions may have led to their passing. As the client acknowledges the facts and circumstances, the energy tends to come closer. Murder victims sometimes come through with excitement and broad smiles. I have learned that they do this to reassure the client that they are well and have moved beyond the tragic circumstances surrounding their death. Similarly, those who crossed over after a painful terminal illness often appear with a heightened sense of happiness, emphasising that they are free from pain on the other side. These confirmations help assure clients not only that their loved ones have survived death, but also that they are no longer suffering as they once were in life.
Subtle taps or sensations on various parts of my body indicate areas worth mentioning. I recall a session not long ago when I felt a slight stirring in my shirt near my chest. I ignored it at first, but when it happened again, I asked the client if her husband had passed from a heart attack. She confirmed that he had. Sometimes these sensations can make me feel uncomfortable physically. Over the years, I have learned how to manage such experiences, though I still feel sadness for the person who may have endured great suffering before passing.
Being a reader is not only about connecting with loved ones on the other side. I must also be prepared to handle the emotional and mental impact of each session, both from my clients and from the energies that come through. Most of my sessions focus on helping clients navigate their grief so they can continue living with purpose and peace. I have met some remarkable individuals in my work; true warriors who have humbled me with their faith in goodness despite their losses.
My only hope is that I have had a positive impact on their lives, just as they have had a profound effect on mine.
