As I delved deeper into understanding my ability, I realized it encompasses many facets of humanity. Connecting with loved ones on the other side was just the tip of the iceberg. I also needed to help people find closure, and to achieve that, I had to learn how to guide them effectively. My wife suggested exploring life coaching, so I began my research. With the help and guidance of a friend who is a master life coach, I embarked on a new journey: learning to become a life coach.
I hoped that by combining my unique ability with life coaching, I could help clients on multiple levels—and I was right. It worked. The course took about a year to complete, and at first, I struggled to merge the two skills. They differ significantly in practice: my ability requires me to step aside and allow a natural flow, while life coaching demands active focus and attention to detail.
Over time, I began to understand how the two could complement each other. I discovered that I didn’t need to force the life coaching process; instead, I could observe and recognize the relevant indicators as sessions unfolded. I learned to identify patterns and help clients break free from repetitive cycles. The results have been remarkable, thanks to my clients’ courage and dedication, coupled with my newfound skills.
I feel truly blessed to make a positive difference in people’s lives.