You cannot truly serve others unless you have done the inner work to prepare yourself for handling bereavement and grief. It is not enough to simply possess abilities and use them; empathy is the most significant part of the service. Knowing what to say, or what not to say, and how to say it is crucial. It is not sufficient to merely reassure the bereaved that their loved ones have survived death and are well on the other side.
Many of my clients now look beyond proof of life after death. The majority already accept that something exists beyond this world. They seek connection; they miss their loved ones and long for answers and closure. My role is to be the bridge between the two worlds, helping them find the understanding they need. This is not always easy, as people often search for specific answers. However, I always explain that I can only share what I am inspired to receive; no more, no less. Interestingly, in many cases, when clients seek a particular message, I am guided toward something else. Yet, even this unexpected insight often proves to be relevant, leading them to the understanding they need in a roundabout way.
Beyond communication with the other side, my clients also seek guidance on how to move forward without their loved ones. This is where my life coaching and life experience become invaluable as I gently help them navigate the difficult path toward new possibilities and healing. The journey is not easy, but it is not impossible either. While I am attuned to the spirit world, my clients are attuned to me; they know I genuinely care and want to help. Their trust and love create the space for breakthroughs, allowing us to uncover hope and a way forward together.
