People often ask me why their loved ones do not visit them in dreams more often or at all. I understand how frustrating it can be to seek a connection and receive nothing in return. Some believe that those on the other side need time before they can come forward, while others say we must be ready to receive them. The truth is, no one can ever be fully prepared—on either side of life. There seems to be no definitive answer. I have waited years for specific loved ones to appear, yet they never have, while those I least expected have made their presence known.
When I lost my mother last year, the grief was profound. I loved her dearly and longed for a sign from her. I hoped and prayed for a visitation, but nothing happened. Frustrated, I began speaking to her out loud, asking her every day for a week to visit me in a dream. I pleaded with her, desperate for closure after her tragic and unexpected passing, and I missed her terribly.
On the seventh day, I felt unusually sleepy in the afternoon and decided to nap. That was when I had the most incredible, vivid visitation from my mother. The dream was so clear and bright—I could feel her standing beside me, speaking to me.
“I am happy here… yes, I am very happy here.”
I woke up feeling like a weight had been lifted from my soul. The experience was so profound and surreal that I needed time to process what had happened. Yet, I had no doubt it was real. For the first time since her passing, I felt at peace, knowing my mother was happy wherever she was.
When my wife returned from work that evening, she immediately noticed a change in me. She said I no longer seemed burdened by sadness. Even now, I still feel uplifted and healed by that experience.
To my dear readers, please do not lose hope. I pray that you, too, are blessed with a visitation that brings you the same peace and comfort.
